What a year…in some ways it went quickly, in some ways it took a lifetime. I figure I can look at it one of two ways: one year further from the last time I saw Josh…or one year closer to the next time I will see him. Although I’m in no hurry for that time to come, at least I know that when I’m done here I will have the loving arms of my big brother to welcome me.
For Josh’s birthday on the 12th, we had a celebration of his life with the family to come together and remember Josh. When we told Jake about Daddy’s birthday, he said, “I guess we are going to have to throw the cake in the air!” So, that is what we did. We sent some cake to heaven tied to green balloons, so that Josh could have some, too. He never did get a chance to try any of Crystal’s oh so tasty and beautifully decorated cakes, but maybe now he did. That was a tough day, but Jake and Caily get us through each challenge with love and a smile. They miss their daddy. We talk about him a lot though, so they will always know what a loving father they have.
To celebrate Josh, tomorrow we will eat at Chilis. They are having a special day where they will donate all of their profits to fight childhood cancer through St. Jude’s children’s hospital. Go to www.chilis.com to find more details. It just seems like the most appropriate thing to do, and I know that Josh would be proud.
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Josh-
In Loving Memory of Josh AllenSeptember 12, 1978-Septemeber 26, 2004 We love you so much.We trutly miss you..We will put the candle with picture of Josh at 10:20 AM time of his death. To remembered him.. _/m/ (sign of I love you). Sorry, we couldn't make it to Chilis but we will be thinking of you, Josh.
Allen Family -
I cried on Josh´s birthday instead of celebrating it. I feel somewhat selfish in the fact that I miss him and his huge grin and beautiful being. I am the first up on this one year Memory because I live in Germany and am 9 hrs. ahead. When my children get home from school (I made chocolate cake) we will send a balloon up with a slice as well. Thank you for allowing me and my children to stay at your home and live first hand how a loving family conquers all. I truly appreciate you, love you, and wish you all the best.
Thinking of you Josh!!!
Love, Mischi & Family
Dear Allens,
Yesterday--more than usual--your family was in Kevin and my prayers, and Josh was in our hearts. This Saturday, we will rise and say the mourner's kaddish in synagogue--as is the tradition when marking the anniversary of the passing of a loved one or a heroic figure. Though we knew him so briefly, Josh will always be both to us.
I'm glad you had a time together to celebrate Josh's remarkable life, and that the children brought smiles through the tears. We couldn't make it to Chili's, but will give a gift in Josh's honor.
Fondly as always,
Kevin and Roni
I often think of Josh, Gretchen, and the kids...
On the anniversary of his passing, I'm reminded to live my life to the fullest, and to never take anything for granted... just as Josh did when he was with us.
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